โThere is no explaining this simple truth about life: you will forget much of it. The painful things you were certain youโd never be able to let go? Now youโre not entirely sure when they happened, while the thrilling parts, the heart-stopping joys, splintered and scattered and became something else. Memories are then replaced by different joys and larger sorrows, and unbelievably, those things get knocked aside as well, until one morning youโre picking cherries with your three grown daughters and your husband goes by on the Gator and you are positive that this is all youโve ever wanted in the world.โ ~ Ann Patchett, Tom Lake